Emotional and verbal abuse are the most common forms of abuse and are present in the majority of abusive relationships, regardless of whether there is physical violence used. Abuse can be very subtle and sometimes, it is difficult to recognise, as the abuser is often very manipulative and convincing. For example, the abuser often convinces the individual that phones are tracked to make sure that person is safe, isolation from friends and family is because they love you more than your friends and family and you are not allowed to work because they love you and want to provide for you.
These forms of abuse can cause significant harm, negatively impacting on self-confidence and self-esteem. In fact, the damage caused by emotional and verbal abuse often lasts long after the relationship has ended.